Cap and Tony get into a scandalous~ relationship. Tony joins the army as an engineer, I think, and letter he joins the Howling Commandos. And all throughout this relationship that they have going on Cap doesn't know about the arc reactor until later. This is important because Tony gets injured (shot in the shoulder) and he keeps the doctor from taking Tony's shirt off.
While all of this is happening, future Cap's memories are changing and he gets headaches. He keeps drawing Tony. I remember that the team was really shocked that Tony joined the military. I also remember that Tony is going by a different last name and that he's on.. sort of good terms with his Dad.
Also: smut. There was lots of Cap/Tony smut.
This has been driving me crazy for a year-- any help you can offer in much appreciated!
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