Trigger warning for the first ask for pedophilia/abuse
1. This was on the Avengers kinkmeme, but I couldn't find it when looking through the meme. Basically, Steve has pedophiliac urges that he never acts on, and Tony realizes due to his own experiences with Howard, and has Steve move in to the Tower and not do kiddie events so Tony can keep an eye on Steve.
2. This fic I read back when I was first reading Avengers fanfic, and I know it was on AO3, which was probably... a year or two ago? Not sure, and not sure how old it was when I found it. I only remember one little bit, which is the part that is why I want to reread it. I think it was a Steve/Tony fic, and the interaction I remember was DEFINITELY between Steve and Tony. Basically, Tony tells Steve some of the things Yinsen told him in the cave, such as being a person with everything and nothing... and Steve is angry at Yinsen- because he feels that Yinsen put some rather impossible expectations on Tony, or something... I don't remember the details. I don't think Steve said anything to Tony about it, but I do think it was a H/C with Steve/Tony or at least Steve & Tony friendship.
I also have a couple general fic rec searches.
3. Ones where Steve, Tony and Bucky are great friends. Any two of them can be in a relationship, but for this, I don't want Stuckony/WinterIronShield (I like Stuckony, just not for this search). Basically, two of them are in a relationship, and the third is a good bro to both of them. I want all the friendship feels- I want the focus to be on the friendship aspect, especially with Tony given the epicness of Steve and Bucky. Either pre-Civil War, no Civil War, or Civil War fixit where the fixit of Civil War has happened or isn't the focus of the story unless that's part of the epic friendship. Heavy on the comfort/fluff- angst is okay, but only if there's a happy ending and LOTS of comfort.
4. Tony H/C, that's long and basically wallows in both the hurt and the comfort- I'm talking 50/50 here (Okay, 70/30). Also, the end needs to be happy. No Tony/Bruce, Tony/Thor, Tony/Loki or Tony/Natasha, and if Tony/Pepper, I want it to be background. The comfort should come from Steve or Bucky, though I wouldn't mind Clint or Darcy (though I prefer not a ship if Darcy, I'll read Tony/Darcy occasionally) or the whole team at the same time. Basically, give me angst and hurt and then let me come out through it. This one can be Stuckony/WinterIronShield. If it's a Civil War fic, it needs to be a fix it that, even if there's a lot of hurt getting there, fixes it in the end and makes everyone happy. BTW, I'm counting in the "comfort" part places where Tony is still hurting but people are trying to fix it- that's why I want a lot of comfort.