does anyone know the name of a fanfic where tony is married (they are not married! but rhodey proposes at the end) but its not exactly a secret and it comes up when its avengers dinner and he calls rhodey 'honeybear' and the avengers are confused until he explains and thor (ma boi) is happy for him but the others don't believe him until rhodey comes back from war and asks whats wrong bc tony is upset and thor is happy to finally meet him.
It's been several years since I read this one, so the details are a bit spotty in my head. It's been years (one year? 5? 10?) since Tony died (I was going to say from the Snap, but I think it may have been from the Battle of New York) and people gather at his memorial site on the anniversary, family, friends, and strangers. Later, when most of the people have left, Tony appears and talks to Pepper and Peter, and maybe Harley. Hopefully that isn't too vague for someone to recognize what story I'm wanting to read again.