1) The specific fic that I'm looking for was one I read a long time ago, and as such, there are only a few things that I'm certain of. I know that in it, the team didn't appreciate Tony, but then they were sent over to another universe, where Tony had died. (I'm fuzzy on whether Tony was sent over as well...) The team sees just how much Tony contributed to the team. I'm pretty sure that OtherUniverse!Steve had been dating Tony? Anyways, the team comes back to their world and it's at least implied that they then smother Tony with love. I mostly only read ao3, so it's probably floating around there.
2) My general request is for stories where Cap realizes that he's not always a saint. (Yeah, CA:CW pissed me off...) or stories where other people realize that Cap's not a saint. The stories don't have to be in response to CW, but it's fine if they are.
Thanks so much!