I'm looking for two specific fics.
The first one may have been a "five times" fic, but I'm not sure. All I remember is a scene where the avengers were in a public place -maybe a coffee shop?- and steve meets a girl with a tattoo of himself on her upper arm. She has crazy colored hair and piercings. I remember he thinks that if he had been born in this era he would probably look like her. I think the pairing was Steve/Bucky.
The second one was about the public reacting to Steves instagram. I remember a scene where Clint was sick, and Steve sent him a pic of Darcy, Jane, Natasha and Pepper with the caption "These Dames want you to get better" or something like that, and some people were offended he used the word Dame.
I think they were both on AO3.