I'm looking for a 616 fic written after Steve's resurrection and Tony waking up from the mindwipe. It takes place while Tony is creating Resilient and Steve is (I think) Commander Rogers, rather than Captain America. Steve and Tony end up getting together, but while Steve thinks they're a couple, Tony assumes that it's a friends with benefits situation, even though he wants more, because he doesn't think Steve could possibly want to be with him. He ends up getting really confused every time Steve shows up, and tries really hard not to be too 'coupley' with him, but isn't very successful. Steve eventually finds out, and they sort everything out. If you know this fic I'd be very grateful if you could tell me where to find it! Thanks!